As a Clinical Nurse Specialist, and the mom of four launched children, my mentoring frequently goes beyond healthcare

I remember the days of working full-time while raising four children, when hectic shifts at the hospital were more peaceful than being at home.

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and into the realm of motherhood. I remember the days of working full-time while raising four children, when hectic shifts at the hospital were more peaceful than being at home. This experience brings a deeply empathetic perspective to my mentoring, especially as I chat with nurses who are navigating the sometimes bumpy terrain of motherhood and professional responsibilities.

My children are the same age as many of the nurses I mentor. I even have a daughter who is an RN. This gives me insight into their experiences and struggles, particularly those related to balancing motherhood and a demanding nursing career. The fatigue that accompanies pregnancy, the sleepless nights of caring for a newborn, and the constant juggle between professional duties and personal responsibilities are familiar challenges I recognize from lived experience.

My best advice? The importance of self-care and setting realistic expectations. Many young mothers who are also nurses feel pressured to excel both at home and at work, leading to burnout and stress. I emphasize the need to prioritize their well-being, reminding them that they cannot pour from an empty cup. Reflecting on my journey, I realize that the skills required in motherhood—patience, resilience, multitasking, and compassion—are remarkably transferable to nursing. Sharing these reflections helps young nurses see the value in their experiences as mothers and how these can enhance their professional practice. My goal is to help cultivate a generation of nurses who are not only skilled caregivers but also resilient and balanced individuals.

Margie is an oncology clinical nurse specialist at Dana-Farber Cancer Institute in Boston, Ma., and a DNP student. She credits onsite hospital daycare for affording time for self-preservation.